Bball in the Dark

We played night time basketball. As The Ambassador really wants to have more dates and more adventures together, I set up a basketball adventure.

It went really well… aside from it being as cold as a witches tit outside. First we went by the YMCA and even though it was 45 minutes til closing, there were a ton of sweaty dudes on the courts. We didn’t want to play with other people so we left. He was all jazzed. Amped up just to be out of the house together, I think.

We drove over to some basketball courts in the dark, and parked my car with the lights on to shine on the pavement. The fence was unlocked but it still felt like we were being naughty.

Shooting hoops in the dark when you can barely see the rim proved to be it’s own type of adventure. Nearly everytime he passed the ball to me, I squealed. I could hear the ball coming but it was so dark I couldn’t see it. I did manage to put a few up though, and was surprised my lay-up hadn’t gotten rusty. It’s been quite a long time since I’ve played any basketball.

I showed him up tossing up a bunch of 2 pointers. Whoosh! Whoosh! Whoosh! He’s no super athlete either, so I wasn’t humiliated. lol. He chased me around, grabbed me around the waist… even made a rapid humping motion from behind em at one point. I was laughing like crazy. He always makes me laugh.

We talked, we tossed, we laughed. We went by the grocery store to get some food since I hadn’t eaten all day. He was big on the holding hands. It felt a little odd to me, honestly. The Collector’s theory is that PDA is an ownership kind of a thing. I don’t know…. it wierds me out since it still kind of feels like he’s got one foot in and we have had no sexy time.

At one point he told me he’d read his horoscope for 2012 and it said this might be the year he marries, etc. He also said he was really stoked because he really wants the marriage.

This sent my mind in to turning over what I’d said to him about not being married again being ok with me. It also had me wondering. You see, The Ambassador has never been married and has no kids. I don’t want to get in to a space where I am just what I offer. I’m a responsible woman who makes a home. I realize he wants a marriage, home and family very much… Let’s just say, I hope I NEVER have to consider a marriage proposal from anyone that makes me wonder WHY he’s asking.

If I ever get married again, it’ll be to someone that just wants to be with me. Someone who is honestly one of the best people I’ve ever met, and who can SAY the same about me. He wants to marry me because it’s ME.

I stayed at his place and it proved to be a NONsexy cuddle only sleepover again. This time, though, he was touching me. He had one hand caressing my ass most of the time. He was touching me lightly and looking at me. Kissing me, although still not a really passionate kiss.

At one point I said something about it and he admitted “You think I don’t know I’m turning you on?” He knew. He said he was just appreciating being close with me.

*Sigh* Is it possible that I could slow my roll and be able to just appreciate that? Idk. I’m a scorpio… that may not be possible.

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  1. Geez girl, if he was a woman he’d be called a cock-tease šŸ˜‰

    Is he a virgin, is that at all possible?

    I ask in all seriousness cos I once dated a virgin (and didn’t know) and the kisses were sort of awkward and he was nervous / anxious / unsure (whatever you wanna call it) about how to move from the bleachers to base 1 let alone anywhere fun *grin*

    I like your comment about marriage for me, made me go “hey yeah!”

    • he is NOT not not a virgin. I do know that. We have talked extensively about this going slow thing and I think if we can get in to the sexual arena everything would be fine.

      i’m just impatient.. I think it’s because I have gotten used to how the sexual market place has become physical first then the rest.. Things seem all out of order, but that doesn’t necessarily mean it’s the wrong way to go.

      & thanks for the comment about the marriage thing. At this point I don’t have to worry about having a family or anything so I can just look for a partner.

      • Must.say.nothing. Lol.

      • mate there is taking it slow and fuckin’ with ya .. I just dunno how you can take the see saw ride .. šŸ˜¦

  2. @Mr. Smarty pants. lol. At least you are still reading. That makes me happy. šŸ™‚

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