The Stow Away Girlfriend; Don’t be THAT girl

Why do I keep seeing women playing the game I call “The Stow Away Girlfriend”?? Ya know, the game where a girl decides that she’ll just start acting like the girlfriend, and maybe she’ll slide right in there and become one.

First of all, from what I’ve seen– it doesn’t work, (ok, it does and it doesn’t) and second… Why on Earth would you want to be THAT girl? Why would you want to become the girlfriend just because you’re the one hanging around? Not because he’s nuts for you, or because he can’t live without you or because you’re his best friend and he knows he’d be a fool NOT to be with you…. but instead because he hasn’t found anything better yet? Why would you want to be that girl?

Personally, I want to be the one he can’t live without, his first thought in the morning and last thought at night… and it has to be mutual. If I have to somehow “trick” him into being with me then NO THANKS.

You see, I saw The Collector (aka: The Red Hott Ramblin’ Man) this weekend and he was telling me how The Crazy Wine Girl was putting out this mad girlfriend vibe and getting super attached even after he told her the score. He’s still all kinds of screwed up over his engagement that broke up before the start of the summer. He’s super sensitive to all kinds of things and not in any shape for any type of committment. Still, she says things to him like “you should like me more than you do.”

What the hell kind of statement is that? Does she think he can just turn up the dial on his emotions? Plus, if she feels that way, why does she keep hanging around and stalking his Facebook and getting her sticky stinky wanna-be girlfriend vibe all over it?

Maybe she’s just crazy about him… That’s nice and all but it’s unrequited and unrequited love is nothing but painful. She’s constantly chasing him for his attention and it’s obviously bothering her, or she wouldn’t have said anything about it.

So, if you are considering a Stow Away Girlfriend project, hit the brakes!!! Hit the brakes, ladies! Pull over for some self-esteem maintenance, and an extra dose of hope and faith. It will happen. The magic will find you, but in its own time. Once again….. You can’t hurry love.

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